【妄念】WILD THOUGHTS (English writing below)
「你知道為什麼你到哪做工，都總是有人事的問題嗎？」
我接下去說：「因為你從來不主動稱讚和鼓勵人，你連謝謝都講得那麼簡短。
你自私，你吝嗇。
你要求國家對你好，環境對你好，別人對你好，全部都要好。
你又給了國家多少好，給了你的環境多少好，給了別人多少好？看看你的嘴形，你的這種嘴形就是總是說別人怎樣不好，卻沒看到你自己的條件到哪裡。這是你不自量力，結果一直造業。
你心中沒有愛，沒有寬容，自然就一點都不可愛。要求別人一定要愛你，這是你的妄念，這就是你人事失敗的原因。
不要跟我說因為你的八字這樣，所以你就會這樣。你顛倒了，是因為你這樣，所以你的八字才會這樣。你的心眼再繼續瞎下去，你生生世世都會這樣失敗。」
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"Do you know why you always face human relations problems wherever you work?"
I continued, "Because you have never taken the initiative to praise or encourage others. Even your thank-you is so curt.
You are selfish. You are stingy.
You want your country to treat you well. You want your environment to treat you well. You want other people to treat you well. You expect all to be good to you.
But how well do you treat your country? How well do you treat your environment? How well do you treat other people? Look at your own mouth shape. Such is the kind that only speaks ill of others, but you do not see the quality level of your abilities. You overrated yourself and hence, committed all these sins.
You do not have love in your heart. You lack forebearance. So of course, you are not adorable in any way. To expect others to love you is an improper thought to harbour, and the main cause of your failure in human relations.
Do not tell me that you are like this because of your Bazi. You got the order wrong. Your Bazi is such because you are such. If your heart continues to stay blind to this hard truth, you will be a failure again and again in many lifetimes to come."
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